I've always thought it's kind of mean to tear petals off a flower to help make a decision. Maybe instead, just wear these earrings and flip a coin.
copper, glass beads, sterling ear wires
Unlike most metals which must be refined from ores, copper occurs in nature ready to be used. It was the first metal humans learned to smelt, the first we learned to cast into shapes and the first we mixed with other metals to form alloys. We've come a long way in the last 10,000 years, but we still love the red-orange luster of a nice shiny piece of copper!